LA Reflections

I think it's a good idea to write a reflection piece after FRs. This takes place when I'm more calm, out of the moment, and I can reflect on what I did well and what I should work on. So, thinking back to what I did last weekend in LA...

First, what I did well.

I pushed. I pushed harder than I have ever before. I kinoed. I kinoed girls everywhere, arms around shoulder, waist, holding hands. It felt a lot more natural than in previous times. I also realized I became more relaxed. I started noticing small details that I didn't before, and that gave me a huge advantage. For example, I noticed that the girl I met in the elevator and the girl with the brother both gave me positive signals, and I was able to amplify them accordingly. Over all, I was way more relaxed than I ever was, and I was totally in the zone.

Now, what I need to improve.

I need to push harder (still). I didn't push for any makeouts in the club, and I should have. Why didn't I? That was dumb. Also, I need to get better at getting D2s. Although it really didn't apply to the situation in LA because I was there for such a short time. The girls I #closed, I was able to get them to txt back. But due to various logistics reasons, no D2s resulted.