Yesterday I went to a talk by the famed PUA Juggler. I'm a big fan of the Juggler method and I try to incorporate as much of that as possible into my own game.
He said something that really made me think. Juggler challenged us to face our fears, every single day. The point is not to overcome or suppress fear. Instead, just go towards it. The moment I feel fear of doing something, then I must immediately go do it. This will allow me to get used to fear.
I immediately put it into practice. There were only one girl at the meeting, surrounded by PUAs. I went and started talking with her. Then during the round table discussion, she and her friend go up to leave, I thought to myself, "it would be pretty scary to get up and run after her and get her number". Since I thought about that, I had to go and do it. So I did. It worked.
I really like that feeling; facing fear and going towards it instead of shrinking away.
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